i think i'm romantiy retarded i'm in my early xs, the only serious relationship under my belt is a year-long one from over a decade ago. i'm attractive, smart, fun, etc. but I have the most terrible luck with men. When I'm not having prolonged dry spells, I'm falling for guys are either too far away or emotionally detached or broke or are taken, or recently out of a long term relationship. Losing hope, but don't want to be alone. Sigh.

You seem to be going for unavailable men you might want to figure out why in therapy.

i'm your male counterpart. let's hook up

Something in your personality is a deal breaker because "attractive, fun, smart" girls do not stay single past x. In fact, they are hunted to extinction.

i am really independent and can be kinda bossy maybe i don't flirt enough. i wish i could really zero in on it and combat it.

do you prefer giving orders or asking questions? also, are you people oriented or task oriented?

i'm good at both, actually i've been a boss but i don't mind asking questions. fuck, i don't know actually. i've been accused of being passive aggressive in my xs but i think i've gotten past that. i think my passive aggressiveness affected my romantic progress, perhaps.

which do you prefer? depending on which personality type you are, your best match is your opposite for example, donald trump likes to give orders, and is task oriented, so his best match is someone who asks questions and is people oriented

i guess i'm more of a trump if it really came down to it. since childhood, i've liked being in control and doing things myself with minimal supervision. although, i do enjoy collaborating, if it's with the right person. so what would be my match then?

yeah, but trump doesn't like doing things himself, he likes giving orders to others while he sits on his worthless ass and watches them work when interacting with others, do you prefer ordering them around, or asking them questions?