please answer this question for me Can anyone tell me why a person who lived her life as a butch lesbian but realized there needed to be more and went on to transition to male gets treated so bad by the lesbian community now? My adds get flagged, I get told to post in the but no "stright" woman wants anything to to with a man in a womans body Only a few special women understand why the FxM must transition. Its super hard to understand the gay community bashing its own.

are you really in sfo because in the bay area, ftm's are generally treated great by the dyke community.

No I am currently in Phoenix I logged into the Phoenix CL yet it diverted to sfo for some reason. But I just moved from Seattle and got the same response from the lesbians there, my adds always got flagged

My friend in SF is flagged every time in

Check posts about x hours ago.

Yeah, this came up in Portland just recently. But the conversation never really got anywhere. The back-and-forth got pretty ugly in the classifieds for a while.

i hate to be a hater but most of the people who post in the classifieds are not that, um, uh, stammer....well, evolved, if you will. there i said it. i have seen some of the most predjudiced, racist, and if you can believe it misogynist things posted there. so keep your chin up, (especially if you are in sf, but dont expect any miracles. can you try other routes? i know some folks who use other dating type sites (planet out, butch/femme, etc)that seem to work out better than good ol CL. heck, why not even give friendster or myspace a whirl?