just because you were a doormat for years doesn't mean you are qualified to give advice to someone who APPEARS to be going through a similar situation. the assumptions you make regarding x sentences which vaguely paint a picture are one thing, but please (for the love of god) don't give out advice as if you have even an ounce of Certainty as to wtf is going on.

seems that if someone has been thru it before they would know better then someone who hasn't. No?

no, ppl are complicated

life is complicated. and most times ppl don't like hearing the truth.

not necessarily. They might have good insight but they don't always give great advice. It can be too emotional a subject for them to see it clearly.

is that why you keep making TPs about it?

I didn't make that TP

you see that asshole? there's more than one person who is sick of this shit

But they can relate to the person going thru it. And it depends on where they are with their own issue, etc. If someone is currently in a physiy abusive relationship and very emotional about it, sure i agree with you. But if they have moved on and learned from it, why not share their wisdome with another in that same situation?

just because you disagree with someone else's advice, does not mean that you are absolutely correct and they are absolutely invalid.

it happens all the fucking time here tired of reading that shit