Question for the kinkfo: Is kink genetic? I've always wondered if such tendencies could be in the genes. I am sure that attitudes and morals can be passed down to our by the way we raise them, but I am talking about stuff they really wouldn't acquire through us directly. I've read a few posts here indicating that people on the forum have seen evidence that their have shown some tendencies, even prior to being sexual (such as rope play during make believe or dressing up) My adult son came home to visit and borrowed my laptop. He left it on when he went out, and I ed to tell him it needed to be shut off when left unattended because it overheats. He told me to go ahead, that he didn't have anything important open. I closed out of all of his stuff and the last page open was Literotica.com on story search. I had to smile when I saw that he searched the same keywords that "work" for me... (a mild fetish that I won't go into) So, do you think we come pre-wired and then if we're lucky we figure out what that trigger is?

Oh, and I hope you all had a Merry Christmas!

or a Happy Hanukkah :o)

Happy XXXMas?

I'm sure it could be, but does it relly matter?

I'm fascinated by how the mind works... and I like to lern stuff :oP

i am fascinated by tittilated tittilations or um titties

I'm also fascinated by how the mind works Unfortunately I tend to over think. Let me think this over and re-think my over-thinking :-)

I may be overthinkng this now that I think about it. I wouldn't have thought twice if it hadn't been a page full of stories that I knew!

oh god i hope not. to imagine my..... parents doing/did what im doing. yuck.

I would imagine that cultural restrictions.... could cause people not to act on it. I didn't even figure some things out until later in life. Maybe exposure is a factor too.

LOL, can you imagine.... walking in on your parents, especially if they where like june and ward off leave it to beaver. I said get on your knees and gag on my cock june, but dear what if the boys find out? LOL EEEEWWWWWWW

Well, she always liked wearing that pearl necklace. ;o)

I think it has more to do with an open mind The fact that he was checking out stories instead of porn tells me he's into the eroticsm of the event and not just the nudity or sexual content. Sounds like you raised him to have an open mind. good going.

I do not think so same wording is one thing but I am way worse that my father mother or brother.... the rest of my family takes a very conservative view on sex. I think Kink comes with your experiences and issue you develop when growing up. Family members do have similar issues to to the household environment so there can be something said for that.

I agree... I think what we do today, wether it be our kinky fetishes or the way we raise our kids all comes from what we learn growing up.

Good points... and you may be absolutely right. But I was also VERY conservative in my views on sex when I was younger. It took me a long time to realize that it was OK to let my mind wander over to the "dark side" a bit. Maybe being repressed a bit adds to the kink later.

LOL... That's funny. I re him once joking with his girlfriend about a threesome and my husband left the room because he didn't know how to respond. I just laughed and in unison with his girlfriend said "you wish!" andof these days I might share the search parameters.. but not just yet. I'm shy. hehe.