So i was asked over the weekend do you think it is common to fantasize. Yes i replied, then all hell broke loose .Is it common or not?

to fantasize? Yes everyone does.

The question came out of the wild blue yonder

You are being far too vague. Im sorry. If you would like to give us a (even slightly) more detailed account of what you were talking about or the argument/discussion you had with someone about something we may be able to discuss it as well... Otherwise, I give up.

then what is it? If someone is so narrow minded that they never fantasize... about anything in life...then they must have it all and have done it all. And that would be a sad point in life, where you do not want to improve, to make it better, when the drive is gone...

Explain the hell breaking loose, not enough to work with there.

Who,what when ,etc

Could you explain a little more fully? I'm not following what you're trying to say.

It was like a trap,i was honest with my answere, then paid for it.Yelling and cussing followed.

What did you tell him that your fantasies were?

There was no description of any fantasy just the question do [i] then it is common.

Damn, if she freaked out on just knowing you fantasize, then I'd be scared of what would happen if you told her you watch porn or think about other girls...

No kidding.

she freaked, gotto go for now everyone have a good evening

BBBBBOOOOOOOOOOO! So no details?

your partner sounds borderline abusive

Oh, he/she asked you what YOUR fantasy is after you said we all do it? Were you fantasizing with someone else and your SO didn't like that? Maybe the offense is that he/she has never fantasized about being with someone else, while you have... so then he/she would be rather upset (I would assume) for hell to have broken loose...

^^pretty much^^