Are you looking for something kinky to do or you just wanting romance advice?

Sounds like you're not sure. I'd head on over to the romance forum for this sort of help.

It's a lot easier if we know what you ARE into as opposed to what you're not. What brought you to kinkfo for answers? Personally, one of the great intersections of kink and traditional romance is hot wax, especially massage candles. One of you can tie the other up (or not) and use the candle to begin an erotic massage etc.

we're planning to have breakfast in bed and stay there most of the day, perhaps ordering sushi delivery that night. sushi in bed just rocks, i highly recommend it. i also plan to spend a significant portion of the day tied up (or down ;). i'm really looking forward to that! we've both been working so much lately, i'm really just elated about getting to spend that much time alone with him. BUT you could always find a good bed and breakfast in the cute small town nearest you and get away for the weekend.

I'm paying to fly my wifes.... ex girlfriend in for the weekend.

Sushi in bed? You're so gosh-darned metropolitan! Sushi joints don't deliver in my neck of the woods. :( That's okay, though. I'm gonna be gorging on Lithuanian food and playing Bioshock 2 all day long, I think. Top that off with a touch of queening and it'll be a happy fucking Valentine's day, indeed.

we can get just about anything delivered: thai, burgers, chinese, sushi, mexican, italian, really fucking great pizza, cigarettes...

Cigarettes too?! But wait--I bet your Mexican food over there is sub-par. Just because, y'know, you're so far away from Mexico! ;) I like living in a bordertown. The only thing that delivers in my neighborhood is pizza. :( Although I do live right nextdoor to a Mexican food place and I am a San Diegan, so that Mexican food is awesome. ;D

my BF is from texas and he thinks the mexican is just fine. i mean, it is actually made by mexicans afterall (we live in a very mixed neighborhood, we can walk to a polish restaurant but they don't deliver).

and yes, i'm totally spoiled and i totally love it. :D

*narrows eyes* I don't trust that thar big-city non-bordertown Mexican food. :D Hooray for many choices in food ethnicity, though, LOL! Sometimes I think I'd give my left little toe to have Chicago and its Lithuanian restaurants right next door. Sigh.

the best fucking lengua taco i ever ate came out of a hipster brooklyn neighborhood yo. i grew up in los angeles (aka mexiquito)

If I ever found myself in NYC I would surely try the Mexican food there, just to say I did and just to see what it was like. But I *still* don't trust that thar big-city non-bordertown Mexican food! ;D

i've had a bunch of tex-mexy stuff in border towns but no real grimy ghetto mexican fare like you get in parts of la...

Oh yeah. I live for the full-lard, mama made the tortillas this morning by hand, real deal Mexican food you can get in the barrio. Yum, yum. We have a couple of decent Mexi shops in the barrio down here. I bet up in LA, you have more to choose from. :(

Yep, Indian food is neato.