So the other day I posted a pic of a new flogger I made. Yes it is chain, yes it hurts, but I was chastised for not being a responsible Dominant. This is farther from the truth. I am just saying. Those that no me, now this to be true, those that dont need to just keep quiet until they do.

*hugs you* I know EXACTLY how you feel. I love the flogger, and I'm sure you know what you're doing.

indeed I would never do something I was not 100% comfortable with even if my sub begged me and batted her pretty brown eyes and said please Sir

I think this is where BDsM gets a bad reputation A session can get really hot and exciting. The emotions, endorfins, adrenaline can easily overwhelm someone and let us go farther than anyone would have expected. This is why it's important to discuss going to another level of pain, bondage, humiliation, etc. prior to the scene and set limits. Even if you're with a long time play mate, you should never assume that you can cross boundaries. That's how BDsM gets in the national news: - (

i think hollywood contributes more to the negative image.

Certainly. A movie must have a villian. Who... would watch a movie about consenting, responsible, knowlegable adults giving each other extreme pleasure without killing or maming each other?

Agreed... And as BDSM becomes more and More mainstream the far right are going to continue with the smear campain.. Think "Reefer Madness" :P

Hey Buuuuuuddddddie! Missed ya' !!

you are alive i made this last weekend. Thought you might like it

Yesterday's thread? Who chastised you? I remember pain vs sensory being discussed but I don't re any accusations directed at you. That sucks... I have no doubt that you are a responsible Dom.

I just re-read yesterday's thread... and I can't see any one poster accusing you of not being a responsible Dom. Several people raised the concern of safety and skill with metal chain implements. I myself spoke to their use (on my ass) being for sensory sort of play only, not impact (for me). These discussions are educational for others and important to have when a picture or post could be misinterpreted. There are many lurkers getting all sorts of ideas from the posts here. I think it's our responsibility to be accurate and informative. But I can't for the life of me find any reference of you not being responsible.

oh hi you... yeah t'was so unbelievably hot. I am still sort of floating in my thoughts.

sounded really, really hot gave me a raging boner anyhow, lol.. I tried to send you a pic, it came back

because when you write to an anon address ehre you can't ch pics. If you write me a regular email i will reply... then you will have my email address and can send me anything you like ;). Glad it got you hard :P.

Ok i will work on sending an email i almost went for a PM

You should have... that's hot to know. Honestly, that just made me wet to read. I know that you love FF action... you would have died to have been a fly on the wall. She's quite the hottie!