my first??? In couple day I will be have my first time as a bottom with my boyfrien. I do not to do to not end up dirty and embarrassed, I wondering what to do? He said don't worrie about it, but that issue could make me stuck in the sex time or just don't enjoy it and really I want to be relaxed and confident Help me with your advises. thanks

A very GOOD post previously posted in answer to a question same as yours: Douching 101 < what_duck > 02/15 15:40:30 No matter how thorough the anal douche, eventually, over a lifetime of anal sex, one is sure to encounter the smearings of what can only be described as shit. An anal douche will reduce the risk greatly, but there are no guarantees. With regards to anal douching, there is no need to shrink back in fear. Any moderately sized bulb contains quite enough water - it's not even necessary to squirt it all in. The whole thing is simple, if blatant. Defecate, insert the nozzle, squeeze in, and remove the douche. Expel the water, noting the expulsion of other, more solid bodies alongside. And this is it... continue until clean. How do you know you're clean? Squeeze... it's simple and natural. Wait until you're almost completely expelled and press a pad of toilet paper against your anus to check what's coming out. Is it clean water? Have fun! If not, rinse and repeat. It's that easy. Once you're expelling clean water you're okay. Don't fill yourself up too much, don't expect miracles. You like anal sex? Then once in a while you're bound to encounter something brown. Live with it. Take a towel to bed, always use a condom. Be happy.

Diet Can Also Help If you eat greens and roughage etc you'll probably be cleaner and require less prep than the guy who's eating fast food grease and other crap. Just saying...