How can you tell if a woman likes you? So, I just went out on a coffee date with a woman I recently met online, and towards the end of the date I asked her what she thought about me and she said she thought I was cute and nice. Then she asked me what I thought about her and I told her that I thought she was cute also and had a good personality. The truth is I think she wickedly cute and smart and I want to get to know her more, I'm just not sure if she feels the same. We were both really nervous, so it was hard to tell. What are some signs on a date that show a woman is digging you?

she asks for or accepts a 2nd date.

Confused If you felt that way about her, why weren't you honest?

need to add... She might have indicated more completely her feelings had you been more up front with yours. What's there to be nervous about? You were already on a date and you were discussing impressions about each other. It's time to her and talk! If you always wait until someone else indicates they're interested first...well...you'll probably be waiting a lot.

I was really nervous... and I didn't want things to be weird for her if she really didn't feel the same way.

it's hard to tell number 1 is eye contact - if they look long enough into your eyes and its not awkward, its a good sign! number 2 is the awkward pauses, if time goes by painlessly, they're having a good time! number 3 is the goodbye - was it awkward? is there a second date set? did u guys hug? did they or did you send them a message since then and the response was positive? these are just my opinions. good luck!

dude, you don't ask someone what they think of you on a date. That is cringe-worthy. Or if you do, go all the way and slide an evaluation form and a pen across the table at her. Yeesh.

just here being helpful

you really are the Nice One

it is quite the cross to bear

Slow down. Have a few more dates and actually get to know each other before declaring your love/lust/like through a text message.

Hold up... I never said I was going to confess any love to her. I just wanted her to know that I thought she was really hot and I would like to get to know her more.

Good luck!

just ask her out already i'd be creeped out by you texting me to tell me you like me, but not by you asking me out.

oh yeah, text your true feelings to her. Excellent.

What's wrong with texting?

it's a bit lame Particularly as a mode for sharing one's true feelings.

deja vu - I agree - texting is lame Wasn't there someone a while back who recommended that someone ask for a date with a card? What is it with people and this easy-out detachment from full communication?