I never thought I would say this but after 5 months of living alone, I miss living at home. Sure my mom was really hard to live with, but it's weird. Our relationship sucks when we are at a distance because we know we don't have to talk to each other. When we are under the same roof, we know we need to communicate to make the living arrangement work out. I miss walking the dogs with my dad and helping him do work around the house. Contray to rofo belief, I paid my parents money and paid for my own bills while living at home. If I could get a job back in LA near where my parents are, I would happily move back home. It also helps that I could save $ in order to have more $ to spend on my traveling as well as to store in savings.

Good idea to follow through on Im living with mine and even though it sucks ass.....Im getting all my marriage debt paid off

Why does it suck for you?

No privacy, small room, my mom is a money freak so she has ALL of my bills in line and wont let me handle them on my own. No matter what I do she's always right there trying to watch over everything to make sure its all done "her" way

Eeek.

Hah same here.

What is marriage debt? The wedding ceremony?

Were you born in LA?

Are you trying to steal my identity? :p

Credit and charge cards that bitch got under my name and used up within the first days of having them. Im down to x out of x, including a xk personal loan for a honeymoon that never happened cuz the cunt got me fired from my job when we had our own apartment

People can do that? Did you have an annulment or a divorce?

These were taken in when we were still together She used her little mind and manipulation bullshit to get me to agree to signing into them

She didn't do this behind your back then I thought she stole your identity or something

Nope, but it wouldnt surprise me if she tries to have the whole divorce be on her terms...which aint happening

Generally the divorce

OMG's situation sounds brutal

Its getting better, now the only thing Im going loony over is my own life and how I fucked up so much stuff that now that I care about someone my head is doing everything to get in the way

Don't sweat it look to the future not the past I once wasted x yrs of my life all I did was go backwards could get into it more but... Since I've straightened everything out. It all works out we can't change the past only the future.

I want to be a stay at home daughter!

I was one for awhile too....lol

what makes you think they want you to move back in with them?? dude, they're glad you moved out.