Greetings everybody. I hope everybody enjoyed the weekend. I have been reading your posts for weeks and finally decided to get started. I am a shy 25 year old girl, with a steady boyfriend for the past 3 years. He is out going and wild, so we are good for each other. Last week our neighbors went away for the July 4th week, and they asked if we coulod walk their dog. My boyfriend went to their laundry and clothes and brought back a few pair of the woman's panties. He asked me if I would act out a fantasy with him, where I walk into their house, catch him wearing her panties, and punish him accordingly. I'm not the dom type or into pain, but I gave it a try. I actually enjoyed it immensely. I tied him up to their bedpost and I covered him head with her panties. I told him I was the other woman (the neighbor) and I was going to the police. he begged me not to, so we agreed he needed to be punished. I sat on his face and made him eat me and rimm me until I was done, and then I left him left him tied to the bed until the morning. I woke and went to their house, untied him, and had the best sex ever. My question to FO is, if your boyfriend wanted this, would you think he has the hots for the neighbor, or a panty fetish, or the deep desire to be caught in this position? The other question is, if you were the neighbor and caight him, what would you do to him as punishment?

pantie fetish I dont think he really cares whos they are as long as they are someone else's. The human mind has a desire to brake rule and when it comes to sex. if your not suppose to do it you want to do it more.

Do you think? Do you think he was fantasizing that the neighbor was sitting on his face?

hmm not sure I dont know what kind of hot talk you too have had. Personally, i think he is focusing all his sexual energy on you.. you have that little sissy boy by the balls.. I would also make his shave his balls.. do punish him and show him his sissy boy status.. you may also make him wear some fem underwear that you pick out when you go out.. If you guys have talked hot about her, or about her and her male mate, then that might change. did you like my blackmail idea?

Yes I like that idea a lot And thanks for the ideas too. I nevr would have thought that way with my own imagination, but I guess he has taken the first step in introducing taboo in our relationship. And I was turned on.

I suspect you were tremendously turned on. As you are, writing about it to me, and others.. good girl! I like what I read.. keep pushing the bounderies with the ideas.. let me know if you want more ideas you can reach me thruogh this email addy thing.. but keep having fun with him!

wonderful fantasy act out.. and welcome! Shy girl: you handled him very well.. I am impressed with your creativity and strength.. I think you did well, by having him service you, and then not allowing him to release.. you are off and running to an amazing power exchange relationship.. be glad to help, as it moves along, but you see to have a very strong start! I suspect you have some inner strength, that with the right practice, will come on wonderfully mature and i think you will find yourself getting much more bold.. I would make him write a letter "confessing" his sissy boy fantasy, written to that female.. make him address it,put it into an envelop, and put a stamp on it, and give it to you, and then the power of dropping it into the mail box is in your hands a great entry into some delightful blackmail games.. oh, make him write that letter before he is allowed to cum.. the more you deny him release the more power you have over him, and the more slavish he will becum to you! sir stephen (let me know if you want more feedback --lots of thoughts to share)

This is purely sinister.. I LOVE it!! A great idea!! Do it shy, do it, and please report back!

I will keep in touch with the forum about this and thanks for all the ideas and support.

please do I PERSONALLY would love to hear more.. always available to talk.. congratulations, sweetie!

I have to say that I like your style and can really appreciate your intelligent and wickedly-fun, devious angles, and I'm glad that you have joined the fun here. Your contributions have already been top-notch, if I may say so. Again, welcome.

I never saw that point of view. Thanks for sharing. I think if I made him write the letter, he'd chicken out, and that would be a power play. Not that I would ever send it anyway. I think that in a healthy sexual relationship, teasing is one thing, but the risk of permanent embarassment or more is going too far.

of course.. you wouldnt send! you care for him too much! but I think you would be amazed at the lenghts he would go to in that power exchange.. Just the threat is enough to get him turned on.. trust me! I have blackmailed a number of subfems for my sexual appettive, but never turned on them or outed them.. they craved that being caught feeling..

I agree I thought about spanking, or a little light whipping, naughty wife.. and yes some nipple clamps would be approrpiate too, but she may not have progressed to that.. Naughtywife, are you dom with your bf/hubby?

I like to dom and sub I just can't get enough of being spanked. As for nipple play, when my hubby has been really naughty, I am pretty brutal. Most of the time he ends up bleeding. He really enjoys it though, especially while he is cumming. I am a very assertive, "alpha female" type, so being the dom comes naturally to me. Hubby is generally more passive and takes great joy in being controlled. It is comfortable for him to have someone else lead generally. At the same time, I love to be the sub sometimes because it is such a role reversal for me. Being choked is one of my favorite activities. I am still somewhat training hubby to be more dom. Sometimes he is too affectionate and doesn't want to hurt me, so he doesn't take it quite as far as I would like him to.

sounds wonderful for both of you You sound like lots of fun to powerxchange with.. remember the golden rule, the longer the interval between orgasms for him (you should have them as you please) the more pain he will be able to handle, and the more excited he will becume, as you control his ability to release YOu may find that another man (not suggesting you should) who is more of a top, will be able to take you to that sub zone you are interested in. Do you doll up for him in sexy clothes (even outside of the bedroom) to torment him and deny him access to you? As an aside, love to spank the feminine bottom! amazing bounce and feeling as a male.. yum!

I have never been spanked Other than a playful slap on the bottom. I think it would hurt more than I'd like it, but I think it is going to happen, especially if I give him a spanking first.