I just want to say... I am not gay but enjoy posting in this forum. I have received some of the best relationship advice, jokes and read some of the funniest threads ever. I hope I will continue to be welcome!

pssst Health and happiness no matter who or what you are!

Whoever negged these asshat.

Asshats abound

i concur

i am going to take a stab and guess that someone negged the OP because there are very very few places in this world that are reserved for queer women, and only queer women. and when non-queers do not respect that, it may upset some folks. of course we all have straight friends. some of my best friends are straight! (heh, sorry i couldnt resist) but it would be nice if the non queers respected our space once in a while. this kind of thing really bothers me, especially because the only gay place to go dance round these parts is now about 50% hetero. as a homo, i dont go to a gay bar to get hit on by a hetero dude. that makes me want to stomp my foot and say 'no fair!' Similarly, some of us dont want to go into a queer women's forum to chat with non-queers. I hope that makes sense. My brain is fried.

thank gawd this is america/ freedom of choice &

oh silly anon, of course you are *allowed* to say what you will, but that doesnt by any means ensure that it wont be rude, disrespectful, and tacky! and if you havent noticed, this forum isnt very shy!

yes feisty I kind of sensed no shyness here

come on now, I was not rude or disrespectful no harm intended

Wait. Which one are you again?

handle me : unrude or notdisrespectful and still not meaning to be but it is me!

Huh?

actually, freedom of speech does not apply on a private website. People must abide by TOU. not that this has anything to do w/ this particular topic

indeed, and furthermore... ...I think the heterocentric jackasses should quit hiding behind the xst amendment. Let's a spade a spade: it's not freedom of speech as written in the constitution, it's just entitlement to heterocentric jackassery with a pseudopatriotic PR campaign shellacked on top of it.

CB try not to hold back

Genius post. on the hypocritical, wholly political fetishization of the same 'Free Speech' that's been systematiy disemboweled by the current band of fascistic corporatists leading this once-not-entirely-evil nation straight to hell. Thank you. ;-)

agreed and the freedom of speech part of the first amendment is about limiting the government's ability to make laws restricting speech, which has absolutely nothing to do with people thinking they have the right to say whatever they want to anyone just because they feel like it. Is it just me or are people in this society acting more and more like they are entitled to things they have no right to feel entitled to?