Use to use one on occasion with my ex. Had a leather adjustable strap and the ball was quite large. For me, it was fun to wear for x - x minutes. Sexy to feel the spit run out of my mouth and not be able to talk, only make gutteral moaning noises. But, it did hurt my jaw to be in any longer than that.

tell me, BK... when was the last time you had sex?? I am just curious.

I'm not sure why that's your business.

It is not...I am just curious. i know your current BF is in Iraq...was wondering if you had permission to "play"

Creepy. I mean... seriously creepy. What her sex schedule is or who she's having it with is her business. If she wants us to know, I'm sure she'll tell us.

and so, I am asking her.

You're asking her because you're a creep? OK But that is information people volunteer, not information polite people ask for. Even from you, that's over the top.