poll how many times did you think this is the one only to find it wasn't? who thought they would spend the rest of their lives with their first and did not? who thought they found the perfect match only to discover it wasn't? How many people found that someone special over time and it was worth the wait?

answer at least 5 times I thought this is the one and found out it wasn't I so thought I would spend the rest of my life with my first more than once I thought this is my perfect match, only to find I change over time so to does my perfect match so worth the wait

poll There is no "one", though it took me time to realize it. I have had two great loves. I never thought I'd spend the rest of my life with my first. See #1 I'm not sure how to answer this one. People come and go, some are more significant than others and it usually seems one sided or lopsided. The idea of waiting for me is silly, no offense. I'm not waiting for anything, I'm just living my life.

B's Every time Never thought that far ahead. The sign of a pessimist? Again,every time,probably Still waiting.....and waiting....